不論跟誰見面都需要知道,最基本的社交常識和基本談話禮儀。當(dāng)然對于見到老外就更值得注意,不同文化背景下的交流需要注意的問題,切忌不要讓對方感覺好像自己冒犯了別人以及完全不尊重對方。
1、握手篇
行握手禮的規(guī)則,很多國家社交禮儀第一步會使用“握手禮”,當(dāng)然有除外,歐美英語國家基本通信,那么握手時(shí)候誰先“出手”?左手還是右手還是雙手?并且注重握手“力度”
Off for a job interview? First time meeting the boss? If you're the 'junior' then leave your hand by your side and wait for their hand to extend.要參加面試?第一次見上司?如果你是后輩,把你的雙手置于體側(cè),等他們來和你握手。
In some more corporate settings it matters whose hand goes out first to who. Better to be safe than sorry.在一些較正式的商業(yè)場合,誰先伸出手十分講究。既然如此,謹(jǐn)慎穩(wěn)妥總好過冒失犯錯。
A good handshake is key and the first step up the professional and social ladder. Too firm – perhaps you're compensating for something? Too weak – you're probably a drip.
一次得體的握手很關(guān)鍵,是邁上職業(yè)和社會化階梯的第一步。太過用力的話,別人會認(rèn)為你可能是想彌補(bǔ)什么。太過無力的話,別人可能會覺得你是個(gè)平庸的人。
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2、形象篇
注重自身形象,切勿蓬頭垢面不要不修邊幅,但是女生也不要過度濃妝艷抹。注意形象,警惕外貌協(xié)會。
However good your handshake or small talk may be, if you look like a sack of potatoes, have that unshaved 'trendy' stubble, bag-woman hair or unpolished shoes then you're undermining everything and doing yourself no favors.無論你的握手和寒暄有多得體,如果你胡子拉碴,蓬頭垢面,不修邊幅,鞋也不擦,那這糟糕的形象對你百害而無一利。
Make eye contact for a few seconds and speak clearly so people get your name and don't have to ask again for it. Work on the whole introduction, verbally, physically and visually.
保持幾秒鐘的眼神交流。報(bào)上名字的時(shí)候要發(fā)音清晰,讓別人聽清楚,可以避免重新問一遍的尷尬。一個(gè)完整的初次見面需要在言語、體態(tài)和形象上都要下功夫。
英語侃大山的話題推薦
(1)Weather能夠談?wù)撚嘘P(guān)天氣情況。
能夠聽懂簡單的天氣預(yù)報(bào),并記錄相關(guān)的信息。
能夠根據(jù)天氣情況,設(shè)計(jì)自己的活動計(jì)劃(合適的著裝、活動去向、活動目的等)。
首先描述有關(guān)天氣的形容詞,sunny,windy,snowy,cold,warm··········
典型句式:How is your weather there??Which kind of weather do you like best ?? what’s? your favourite season ? During this? season , what do you like to do ?·········
(2)聊動物Animals
能夠表達(dá)自己喜歡和不喜歡的動物,并說出為什么。
能夠描述動物的外貌特征以及它們的習(xí)性。
Do you have any pets? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start.
你養(yǎng)寵物嗎?人們都喜歡寵物,問起他們的寵物能讓對話進(jìn)行下去。即使對方?jīng)]有寵物,這也不失為一個(gè)好的開場白。
(3)job聊工作和專業(yè)領(lǐng)域
工作的行業(yè)種類,專業(yè)度記住一些專業(yè)名詞,以及工作對社會的影響,自己在工作中的收獲。
What's one of your favorite parts of this job?這份工作讓你最喜歡的部分是什么?
這個(gè)話題和辦公室里任何人都聊得起來。它和工作有關(guān),但足以私人到真正討論人們喜歡和重視的東西。而且你可能會發(fā)現(xiàn)你和對方都關(guān)心同樣的事情。
This is a good conversation starter for anyone in the office. It's about work, but also personal enough to generate a real discussion of things people like and value. And you might find that you care about the same things as the person you're talking with.
(4)entertainment聊電視電影書籍
你最喜歡的書是哪一本?或者電視電影是哪一部?如果直接詢問對方正在閱讀的書,顯得太過親密。而問他們喜歡的書或者電影利于在彼此之間建立聯(lián)系。從正在上映的影視劇聊起。
Pay attention to details like this to rise above the rest of the new recruits – it's the soft skills, as well as the hard ones, that will take you to the top.
當(dāng)然每個(gè)人喜歡的話題不同,與老外聊天時(shí)候通暢從天氣等等一些最近的開始,慢慢深入。
會用英語聊天這也是一種軟技能,它和硬技能一樣,幫助提升自己的多面思維和眼界。
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